Tuesday, June 10, 2025

In the Spousal Case - The Waiting on God

Abraham listened to his wife for a child she thought would be the promised child (Genesis 16: 2-4) and that became a disaster and an act of sin which God hates, as a result, could be consequential upon Abraham's prolonged years of the promised child coming to fruition. Yes, the Bible doesn’t explicitly state it was due to the conjugal union between Abraham and Hagar, but taking into account Paul’s contrast of Ishmael and Isaac in Galatians 4:23, hints that the attempts to hasten (indulgence of ungodly or sinful practices- not approved by God) God’s plan can complicate and elongate the waiting journey.

Adam was given instructions on the tree to eat from (Genesis 2:16-17) and his wife Eve, who was equally and fully aware of these instructions (Genesis 3:2-3), disobeyed and lured Adam to the sin of disobedience. Theirs was more devastating than Abraham's, because they lost the glory of God and eviction from the beloved Garden of Eden, their cherished home.

While waiting on God we must know that the devil will/can always break in through our minds and other willing avenues, for the married, the easiest and most accessible means being their spouses, with the sole aim of making us do what God will not approve of, so as to distant us from Him by the way of sin, and this will keep us far from God's favour in our lives.

In the case of Spouse, husbands are the head of the family and should guide the spirituality of their wives tenaciously so that they can both be uninterruptedly faithful to God otherwise, our enemy- the devil, will penetrate through the spiritually weak one.  Apart from spirituality, you should watch her lifestyle too, because Eve wandered away far from Adam and met the serpent- the devil and succumbed to his bidding, if she was at a close range, at least Adam would have heard her voice and asked, "Dear, who are you talking with"? Sometimes, we get blinded by love or the ideology of “Oh’ my wife is my better half”, and then we lose guard on watching or taking charge of certain areas of their lives. This journey of waiting on the LORD is the hardest I can see in the journey of Christianity.

My point is that you may be wondering why there seems to be delay to your prayers and why God is silent on you? Whereas your lifestyle or that of your spouse is the reason God is holding back, giving you an opportunity to return to him in repentance. Sometimes, despite our seemly perfect and sinless Christian life of continuous obedience to God in a consistent devotional life, unwavering faith and intentional flee from all appearance of evil; answers to our prayers can unknowingly be delayed by spiritual forces. Such forces and unique issues can be likened to "Prince of Persia" (the special forces of evil- See Daniel 10:13). These are words that connote the presence of demonic forces withholding in the spiritual realms our breakthrough and answers to our prayers. Daniel prayed and called on God, unknown to him that forces were at work, as revealed by angel Gabriel. (Daniel 10:13).

Now, this may be your case, your prince of Persia could be unforgiveness, adultery, malice, anger, hatred, hostility, wife-battery, husband-battery, divination (consulting mediums), spiritual harlotry (visiting different religious houses), spiritual apathy (lackadaisical attitude towards worship) etc. Living above this, calls for special spiritual reinforcement and an intentional Christian lifestyle, both individual and collectively as a household. We have Special Forces of demonic agents on special assignments (Ephesians 6:12) to pull down families and individuals who are born to do exploit for God. This is an undeniable reality, and if you choose to deny, think again. Don't see yourself as every other church member who testifies of how God delivered them from nightmares. NO! Yours could be an age long spiritual attacks, needing a different course of action, to pray and live, breaking walls of demonic, barriers, and obstacles in our lives and in the life of our families. This comes with a concerted effort of intentional life of righteousness and connectedness with Jesus Christ, with total obedience and trust to the source of power (Jesus) above all forces of evil. Ephesians 6:10-13 “Finally, be strong in the Lord and in his mighty power. 11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms. 13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand.”

It is my prayer that God, in His infinite Mercy, Power and Grace, will surely win our battles and take all the glory. Amen.

 

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In the Spousal Case - The Waiting on God

Abraham listened to his wife for a child she thought would be the promised child (Genesis 16: 2-4) and that became a disaster and an act of ...