The Wedding Ring: the wedding ring signifies you have covenanted yourself into an eternal commitment. In marriage there are unbearable moments that tends to tear apart the relationship, but it is best to understand that it is a stage of the journey in the life a couple, a difficult challenge that they must face head-on in their capacity to own it back – remember you cannot quit when you haven’t tested a fight.
Communication Knits It: Communication is a two-way process of reaching a mutual understanding in which participants not only exchange words and information but should become a reflex of the hearts. Listen deeply and share openly to strengthen your bond.
Power of Words: Words can build and can also destroy, avoid negative remarks to your spouse. It is better to hold your tongue than regret hasty words. “Be swift to hear and slow to wrath” – James 1:19.
Resilience in Tough Times: There will be moments when giving-up is easier than standing, and giving in looks more attractive than persevering. in those moments, character may be the only thing you have to draw on to keep you moving.
Loving Imperfection: You don’t love people because they are perfect; you love them despite their flaws. True love embraces imperfection and sees beauty in the reality of who they are.
Authenticity in Love: It’s hard to show love if it’s not genuine within you. Be true to yourself, better to be disliked for who you are than loved for a facade you can’t maintain. Judging vs. Loving: If you judge people you will have no time to love them, for there is never a time or place for true love, it happens unexpectedly, in a heartbeat, and transforms your perspective. True love doesn’t wait for the perfect moment.
Foundation as Friendship: Keep avoiding saying negative words to your spouse, because an unhappy marriage often stems not from a lack of love but from a lack of friendship. Negative words erode connection. Nurture companionship to keep your bond strong.
Love as Action: Love is the act of will and not the feeling expressed by experience; You must deny yourself and find a way to meet your partner’s needs and not making your own things subject of the formula, this will make your partner feel proud of you and to adore at all times. Remember love is not only expressed words but also actions, showing your love through your actions will give your spouse a gift that speaks louder than words not just something for buying sake but something of value.
Tolerating Challenges: when it is time to do hard assignments, remember to tolerate every harsh feed-backs owning to the fact that none of us is used to the shades life throws at us, so in such case we have to bend to blend into your shared journey.
Patient Pursuit of Love: When trying to win a woman’s heart you have to study her gradually and patiently like trying to attain a degree in the university, studying here, is more of showing love and care- no matter how annoying you feel about her attitudes, just keep ignoring it all and keep showing love and care. That desire in your heart will come to fruition and you would build a deeper connection.
Sacrifice for the Honey: Sweet marriages demands big sacrifices, you don’t have to allow your emotions to rule you, and you have to fight it till it works. A thriving marriage demands significant sacrifices. Don’t let emotions control you; fight for your relationship with determination until it flourishes.
Anger Destroys, Love Builds: Anger does not build, it destroys. Love does not wait for reward, remember God loved us when we rejected Him, turned our backs against Him, yet He sent His Son Jesus Christ to die for our sins. Anger tears down, but love endures without expecting reward.
Forgiveness as Strength: Holding onto grudges poisons a marriage. Practice forgiveness, not because your spouse deserves it, but because it frees you both to grow. Forgiveness is a gift that heals and strengthens your bond.
Growing Together: A thriving relationship requires both partners to grow individually and together. Encourage each other’s dreams, celebrate small victories, and commit to learning and evolving as a couple.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things endures all things – 1 Corinthians 13:7
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